Future Concerns
In infancy, a doctor's child may wish to be a doctor, the son of an engineer may hope to be an engineer and, likewise, the daughter of a teacher may wish to be like her mother.But
, childhood ambition may not be necessarily the future plan of that particular person; he may change with the development of his age. Because the more a child reaches the puberty stage, he will start to feel he is an independent personality, which is looking for anything that will make him a beneficial element in the society.
At this stage, a young boy or girl changes from a person, into a personality who is looking for a way that will find a new way and value to their personalities, like being an artist, a scientist, a leader and so on. In this stage, the youths will never hide themselves in the social circle, which might be the family circle or other social circles.
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a young man or woman try their best to be in the best position they choose for themselves. These ambitions and hopes are what they are looking for and work in order to achieve them.
It is a great mistake for us to regard our social position as a predetermined fate, which we cannot change, as if it is a strong building thatcannot be destroyed
or a firm tree that can never be uprooted. This is because our future is in our hands. There are many who stay in their position, without any movement to take themselves out from such a position or stance. Having a glance at our own environment, we will see how the son of a laborer becomes a doctor,or the
son of an ordinary worker becomes a lawyer, or the son of a grocer becomes a renowned engineer, or maybe a son of an illiterate man becoming a well-known writer and so on.
At school time, the youths are anxious about their future, even though they have already set their path by choosing the course of studies or their social status, or it was chosen for them from his examination results, but with all these he will continue to live in such a state. A serious studentdoesn't
regard his university studies at the station of his life. Many a time, university graduates continue their studies and get higher certificates. How many times have graduates from a particular course, continued their studies to the extent that they past those who were before them?
Being the fact that we cannot get all of what is hoped for orachieved,
it is possible that some of us will not beopportuned
to finish our studies due to either family conditions or financial or political problems.But
, from all that we have seen there are some who were able to find their way in life and surpass some of their mates.
Therefore, study is among the important things in thefuture,
and it the basis and root from which the youths will start practicing their professionalism. Indeed, the time has passed in which a student regards the time he receives his university certificate with high credits as the fruits of his effort, thereby, he is inclined to it for the rest of his life.
Today, we are faced with a developed life that will never accept what was accepted at the time of ourforefathers
, because the university degree of today may be like a certificate of preparation of yesteryears, and a master's degree as a preparatory stage of a doctorate degree. Even those who attained doctorate degree are continuing their studies.
No doubt, if my mate or neighbor or a friend is able to achieve such a higher stage of knowledge, I can - under the same conditions - reach where he reached, because the futuredoesn't
favor anyone above others…the doors are opened for all. Those who enter through widedoors,
are those who turn their future concern into a determination and a will; it is said, "Whoever puts much effort, achieves what he wants and whoever plants, harvests." The next thing, which disturbs the minds of the youths, is 'work'.It is possible that a young fellow may
finish his university without getting a suitable job or a place where he can practice what he learned. The condition may force him to change what he has learned or work in another field.
It is either that he fights in order to work in the field he likes and had hoped to work in or he will not be able to achieve that which he strived for, therefore, not fulfilling what he wanted to fulfill.
But
, if you achieve what you hope to achieve, then, it is necessary for you not to be dull and lazy in your work, rather try to be perfect. Be an inventor in your work, a competitor in increasing your knowledge and experience, and do not regard the stage you are in as the end of the road.But
, if a difficult condition separated you and the work you wanted to achieve, then you ought to remember that you might have missed a chance, but there are many chances that you can achieve your personality and your ambition.
Because the favor and capabilities granted to you by the Almighty Allahwere not confined
to a particular field. Many a time, we have seen young men and women who achieved something in life, even far away from their own field due to some reasons, because theydidn't
surrender to the condition, that is not on their side.
The third thing is 'money'. Today's needs are many and it may be possible that what a youth achieved cannot satisfy thoseneeds,
therefore, we must arrange our needs according to our earnings. Because, the list of our needs can never finish when left unquenched, thus, we must feel that 'money is for our service and we must not be at the service of money'.
But
there is no harm in seeking; rather it is among the hopes of a person who opposes vacillating.Because accepting little is much better than getting much as a grant, which is regarded as failure.
The Almighty Allah says:
"…traverse then its broad sides, and eat of His provision; and unto to Him (alone) is the return." Holy Qur'an (67:15)
Even though, financial problems disturb the youths much, and force some of them to work in more than one place or migrate to other countries where there is more work, but what we wanted to draw attention to is that developing abilities and professionalism in more than one field and depending on Allah, are among the ways of getting rid of such problems.
Whatever the case may be, money is important but it must not be our prime goal, because it is not only food that makes man live.
There is also the importance of 'marriage' as afuture plan
. Most of the time a young man or woman thinks about this social and blessed phenomenon, and he even gives much time and importance to it. They want to build an Islamic family living under the shade of Allah's favor to both of them: "And of His signs is that He created for you mates that you may dwell (inclined) with them, and caused between you love and compassion…" Holy Qur'an (30: 21)
The family life partnership is an importantfuture plan
, which requires making a better choice on the part of both parties. The Almighty Allah has predestined for a believing man to marry his suited believing woman, because they have suited each other both mentally and spiritually and in their goals. By choosing a nice partner, we will be sure of raising a pious family that is capable of developing a pious society.
There is a saying of the Holy Prophet (s.a.w
.) which says: "Decide where your sperm will go, because the veins areinter
woven." This, then, is clear that marriage is not just for fulfilling ones urges. The believing men have the right of choice, likewise, the believing women, "If someone whom you have no doubt in his religion and morals comes to you, then marry him."
Another subject is seeking position and fame. We, young men and women, must not hurry in seeking it, because it will come if we dogood
in our work and be patient till the time comes. We must work and the Almighty Allah will pour it forth, but on the condition that itwas done
for His sake. Working in order to show power,capability
and favor is legal, but work for showing and seeking people's consent destroys the good face of our work. If we make our intention pure and for the sake of Allah, the Almighty, and be firm on His path and pay our services to people on the path of "the best of men is he who benefits men",
causing them to be happy because of it, then by these we will get Allah's consent.
"(Saying): 'We feed you only for Allah's sake, we ask not of you any recompense, nor (even) thanks (thereof)!'" Holy Qur'an (77:9)
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Allah will make us famous and cause us to have a position in the heart of the people. Therefore, we must work for the betterment of the people seeking Allah's pleasure and consent, and we will get a nice position in the sight of the people. It is reported in someDu'as
that: "How many good features, which I didn't possess, butYou
spread them…" Therefore, do your best and the outcome willappear.