Question 16
Is masturbation harmful?
Reply:
Although some of the “uninformed physicians” and “non-researcher psychologists” are trying to show “masturbation” harmless for the youth, but we have received numerous letters from those suffering from it, and the sensible and external observations all approve that actually, this is a sort of denial of sensible realities and definite delusion of youths.
Here, we narrate a documentary and research article extracted from the article of a popular psychologist (Dr. Chehrazi) published in the issue 13 of Daneshmand maganize as a live answer to this question.
The teenagers and youths are facing with complicated problems one of which is “sexual problem”. In fact, at this age, when sexual tendencies are formed, and after a period of curiosity, the teenager finds the reality of this instinct, any encouragement and sexual temptation kindles the fire of lust in the teenager.
In the past, the youth were principled thanks to “religious training and social customs”, and when facing with the sexual instinct, they showed self-control and inhibited temptation.
However, today1, sexy scenes in the street, home, advertisements, and observation of bare photos, magazines, dailies, cinema and TV film and romantic stories are very influential in provocation of this instinct, and consequently, the youth are engaged and entangled with strong and rebellious sexual desires.
Here, ejaculation or wet dream happens to the teenager after guidance of his friends, or during sleep, and such like, and since he enjoys it, he decides to repeat its causes, gradually ending to masturbation as a big proble in the youth’s life.
Some physicians and psychologists believe that masturbation is a natural affair and assume it normal for man and animals.
They neglect that if it is repeated for several times per week, it would have many bodily and mental harms for the youth (unfortunately, these habits are strengthened gradually, and since its means are available for the youth easily, they are addicted to it soon, ending to several times per short internals).
Ill-consequences of this obscene habit and impotence
According to the recent studies, particularly with our studies and researches on more than thousand of youths, it was found certain that masturbation shall not be considered simply and carelessly. (Pay attention).
For clarification, first it is necessary to explain about the physiology of sexual glands:
One of the symptoms of puberty is excretion of sperm from the cells of gonads. Each drop of sperm contains millions of spermatozoid and a special viscous liquid excreted from gonads, entering sperm sac through the sperm duct.
The sperm sac is filled gradually, and a part of it is absorbed by body and is effective in growing of teenager’s body, and stimulates sexual desires. However, its major part shall be evacuated and used for reproduction.
The youth who are less subject to sexual temptations, and their religious and sanitary beliefs prevents them from inappropriate temptations, when, sperm sac is filled, it is evacuated during sleep as nocturnal emission, and biological balance is established. In this way, there is no concern for them.
However, the youth for whom the numerous causes of sexual temptation are accessible, assume masturbation as the only way of ease, and since they find their ease after every temptation through masturbation, the action is often repeated. When it is repeated for several times (or more) per week, the youth will be in an abnormal mental and sexual situation, and will be affected by disorder in their sexual system, the important symptom of which is impotence.
It should be explained that during natural satisfaction of sexual instinct and marriage, the youth’s sexual instinct center in his brain is tempted through observation, touching and other senses, and physiologically the impressions transmitted to the brain centers through eye, touching and such like, result in sexual reflection, and sexual intercourse is performed naturally.
It is completely different for masturbation, when fancy and imagination of particular views and local touch replaces the natural temptation factors, and in this way, a sort of altered reflection occurs in the sexual system.
When it is repeated, and the ‘altered reflection’ is stabilized in the youth’s nature, it results in his impotence in natural satisfaction of his sexual instinct. On this account, they found themselves impotence after marriage. This quality disturbs and outrages him, and its repetition appears in the form of a sort of mental problem, later affecting his character and psyche (of course, the youth’s fear, worry and scare will worsen the case, while it is curable if he stop his obscene habit, and keep cool and replace it with a good habit).
Corporeal disorders in the afflicted with masturbation
The other important point is that as we already referred, a part of excreted sexual materials (sperm) is absorbed by body and results in the growth of the teenager, both corporeally and mentally.
When, these materials are evacuated after repeated masturbation, in addition to disorder in the complete sexual growth, it results in slimness, weak personality, weak will, little power, too much shame and reduction of mental power.
For more clarification, it is better to review some samples of the utterances of the afflicted who have failed after marriage, do not enjoy their wife or are suffering from impotence.
A married young man said: I love too much my wife, but unfortunately, do not enjoy sexual intercourse with her, and this bothers me.
A lady said: It is three months that I have married, but I do not know why I do not have any sexual feeling with my husband.
A young man stated: I did this obscene action after puberty repeatedly. Now, I fail in sexual intercourse with my wife, but when I am alone, I am tempted.
Other two young men said: Due to repetition of this obscene action, we fail in sexual intercourse with our wives and we are really discountenanced for it.
A young man expressed: I have made marriage contract with my wife six months ago, but unfortunately, due to affliction with this obscene habit, I have not succeeded in sexual intercourse with her.
It is remarkable that the secluded and isolated youths are subject to this obscene habit more, and on this account, they shall avoid unreasonable seclusion and eliminate this factor through selection of good and faithful friends.
Weak personality and obsession
The other harm of this obscene habit for the youth is that most of them become repentant and feel sorry after doing it, and promise themselves not to repeat it anymore. Unfortunately, when the causes are provided, they repeat it.
The repetition and continuation of repentance and action hurts their psyche and causes the youth to feel weak personality, weak will, doubt and suspicion, obsession and impotence.
In brief: Masturbation disturbs the feeling of pleasure and ability through deviating the mental reflection system in the sexual issues, and results in inferiority complex, contempt and abnormality of personality. Moreover, it hurts the bodily growth of youths. (End of narration from Dr. Chehrazi)
Essential remark: For prevention from occurrence of these risks, the teenagers and youth shall challenge with this obscene habit hopefully and seriously, and at the meantime avoid fear and embarrassment.
First, they shall try to avoid watching bare photos and cinema deviating films and or reading romantic books and cheap presses.
They shall fill their leisure time through selection of good friends and avoiding seclusion and even sleeping alone in a room, selection of useful sport activities and right hobbies.
They shall avoid association with the perverted individuals, and avoid this obscene habit through replacing it with a series of good habits.
They shall never be deceived by some poisonous writings and utterances of the uninformed physicians and unaware psychologists who probably guide the youth to this obscene action!
For prevention of those who have not afflicted yet, and also for withdrawal of those addicted, you can refer to our detailed discussion in the book, “Sexual problems of the youth” besides what was mentioned here above.
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